Minneapolis, Minnesota — In the final hours before he was fatally shot, Alex Jeffrey Pretti, a 37-year-old intensive care unit nurse, sent his mother a brief text message — just five words — never knowing it would become the last thing she would ever receive from her son.
The message, simple yet filled with meaning, has since taken on devastating weight for his family. At the time, it sounded like reassurance. Now, in the aftermath of his death, it has become a painful clue to the truth behind why Alex was there — and why he never came home.
Pretti was shot and killed during a chaotic encounter involving federal officers amid heightened tensions surrounding immigration enforcement operations in Minneapolis. Authorities initially claimed he posed a threat. But emerging witness accounts and video footage have cast serious doubt on that narrative.
According to family members, Alex was unarmed. He had gone out that day driven by concern for others — the same instinct that led him to spend his career saving lives in an ICU. Friends and coworkers describe him as compassionate, calm under pressure, and deeply committed to helping people in crisis.
“He was the one you wanted beside you when things went wrong,” a former colleague said. “Not just because he was skilled — but because he cared.”
The five-word message Alex sent to his mother shortly before leaving was not made public at her request. But relatives say it reflected his desire to protect others and his belief that he was doing the right thing. Only after his death did his mother realize the message was also a quiet goodbye — one she never knew she was receiving.
As investigations continue, the Pretti family has forcefully rejected claims that Alex acted violently. They are calling for transparency, accountability, and the release of all body-camera footage related to the shooting.
For his mother, however, no investigation can undo the moment she opened her phone and reread those five words — now forever frozen in time.
“He went out to help,” she said quietly. “And that’s why he’s gone.”
Alex Jeffrey Pretti’s death has sparked renewed outrage and grief across the community, raising urgent questions about the use of force, the treatment of civilians, and how a man dedicated to saving lives could lose his own in such a tragic way.
What remains is a family in mourning — and a mother left holding a message she will never stop reading.
